If you call him just tell him you can tell from his voice he's lying.

I am noticing a lot of LBS' try to factually PROVE infidelity with material evidence... It's pointless.

It is likley just due to our education, we are taught to work with facts and argue our case, be it in the boardroom, medical office, or any other industry really... argue your case.. stick to the facts

When you are dealing with an addict, you just have to tell him

I KNOW.. and then deliver your consequences if you have any leverage...otherwise, there's not much point in calling.

OIN, my advice is to call his wife. I don't expect her to do anything, but I woudl'nt be surprised if it still bothered him. I can't imagine he wouldn't care about that... Most WS' do NOT want you talking to the LBS of the third party... they don't like it...

If he DOES reveal that it is bothering him, you have some leverage... if there is contact, you call his wife.. each time he calls your wife, you call his


Back to my point... you can't argue the case with OM... Just tell him you know he's been contacting her and hit him with the consequences and hang up

Calling him names and suggesting he isn't a christian, seriously, he doesn't care... He thinks this whole thing is a GAME.. he gets an EGO trip from your wife slobbering over him... It's pathetic, but for him its a huge rush of excitement... he gets his ego stroked each time he gets a call or makes a call

Your telling him he's not a christian? He couldn't care less

Find some leverage and use it, or don't waste your time calling him.. UNLESS you CALLING him bothers him, but it doens't seem to bother him at all...

Don't be coy, if you call, tell him you know and hit him with conseuences or don't call... If you call and don't tell him why and ask him if he's keeping his word, he just takes you for a coward... He's been hitting on your wife... If you call him and ask him if he's been keeping his word he just thinks you are funny... A funny little man he can walk on because his wife dreams about him... Dont cater to that... hit him with leverage if you have it or don't waste your time