OK thanks Allen and DLS. I have been backing off lately and I don't even talk to her much really unless she talks to me. She sleeps on the sofa and I just leave her alone.
I called the OM and asked him, "How are you doing at being a man of your word?" He said, "Huh?" I said, "You know - you told me you would not be calling her and you asked her not to call you?" He said, "Oh yeah, good!" I know he was lying because I know from phone logs that he talked to her yesterday and the day before. Then he told me that he and his wife were moving to California probably in July which may or may not be true depending on whether his wife gets the job she is interviewing for. I just pray that he does and that he doesn't try to maintain contact with W after that. I wanted to confront him more, but I think he was driving with his cell phone because our conversation got static and got cut off. It's probably a good thing, because I wanted to say, "I have a hard time believing that you were once a Christian."
Make sure you focus on having fun, and your wife will be there if she will be there. Don't worry about the situation, it drags me down when I think about how everything is currently situated and I know it does you. Don't worry about that, have a good time, build or rebuild good and fruitfull relationships and you will be straight.
