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[pigskin]

Not surprised to hear your W's reaction to Retrouvaille. Probably looked at the info like you just handed her a pamphlet from the Hare Krishnas. I thought about that when I recently got a prayer devotions booklet with a lot of good articles on taking care of your marriage. Thought about showing it to my W and ask if she would read it, but then thought that she'd treat it like some unwelcome handout from a religious group.

They have to be ready for it. You can still try to sell Retro as a much cheaper alternative that supposedly has an 80% success rate.