My son came back fro Iraq a changed man. He has seen and experienced the horrow of war and it was apparent on his mid tour homecoming party. My wife was very happy the days prior to his arrival.. She became upset when she learned my mother was going to attend the party. In some ways I feel we connect and other times we are back to square one. My wife keeps telling me I have not changed but people who know me say I have and that I am a great person. My wife is going through the mid life crisis syndrome so it is tough to know how to handle her. I still do love her but she keeps saying she wants out of the marriage. She has not left the house and quite honestly I doubt she will. She will hear about the Dental Hygiene program in 2 weeks. We went out to dinner last night with my son and girlfriend. My wife told me this morning not to read into it as it was for our son and not me. Needless to say I am hurt and tired of this emotional rollacoaster. Any words of encouragement? Bobby O
