still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

I forget, but how long do they say these things go on usually?

I would say that any day now you will have the "upper hand" because the "love hormones" or whatever makes them addicted will be gone.

I have heard 6 mo-2years but have observed on DB many seem to last 18 months! And at one of my meetups, I heard the chemicals wear off at 15 months so people have to say "hmm...the thrill is gone but are there enough other factors for me to stay with this person?"

I am not sure when to start the 15 months between the 2 of them. Did it start when they slept together in October 08? or when I kicked him out in March 09 and they were able to be together? Let's say it was March 09. Then June will be the month when the chemicals wear off.

Do you think OW has all these good DBing resources? You have a whole team of support and she is no match for YOU (and us!lol)

No, but she does have the Bunny Boiler Bible! She seems to intuitively know how to seduce and manipulate (the willing! am not letting WH off the hook) so I bet she knows how to threaten and coerce!

But I see what you mean...the good thing about DBing is that if I end up divorced, I will be new and improved instead of just broken hearted!