still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

lol- oops, I was doing tons of mind reading and assuming so I have no clue if OW is actually saying or doing any of those things!

BD I appreciate your positive thinking but I realized if I am going to be willing to file for D in July, I better change my focus during my meditation to emphasizing that I want the H that I married to return to me, not the the current WH. (yes I know technically that he will never be the same but those who have been through infidelity know what I mean I think- a defogged H!)

I hope this works out for me...accepting divorce from WH and being open to reconciliation from H.