this is an odd statement. i am a done deal in his mind. when he asks for a d, he is a done deal. what did he expect? that i would be happy about it? the day that i stopped hugging him, was the day that he knew he was a done deal.things were never the same after that.
He KNOWs this about you--before he did it he knew.
You are tough--you stay the course. You are strong. He knew.
If you change your mind he will not believe it. It will not be in his ability to comprehend. You make up your mind and THAT IS IT. He has seen it a hundred times. He's also seen you rise to challenges that would break other people. That is why he is afraid of you. He is no match for you. He's a golden retriever inside. They are the last dog to be in a fight. They are wusses.
