Thanks Allen. You have given me a ton of great advice. I will probably need to do some of those things. Like leaving the TSO out and making those phone calls. I just need to time it right.
I believe that things will eventually work out if I just take the high road here. I just would like to speed up the process if it's possible. Some of the things that are suggested here for me to do are not for the faint of heart. I guess that's where I struggle.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.