kissak, Eric, AJM, HB, Cyrena & SA You all seem to think that I did well...thank you for the thumbs up
I actually feel really good after the meeting, I don't know why and for once I'm not questioning it...just feel good
It's so unnatural for me to be this "cold", but I think I had to be like that to be able to remain strong and detached so my emotions don't betray me. As time goes on I'm sure that I'll be able to "fine-tune it" HB -
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you simply cannot go back to the place you were in, with him disrespecting you by having OW
agreed AJ -
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Why would you add warmth if you don't feel it?
But I DO sometimes....I do feel compassion, anger, sadness, disappointment, coldness, love....all of these at different levels at different times. Sometimes I do want to show him warmth and to smile at him.....not that he deserves it
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mine literally was running! Marathons, half-marathons
Wow AJ....mine as well, that's where he'd met OW - at a running clinic...and they were "training" together for 6 months before I found out. And now they are both still "running" from their kids and spouses. BTW H picked up running when he turned 50...that's when I believe his MLC started.
cyrena - My H wants to be warmer and wants to be my friend while still with OW....Mr cake-eater. I was following his clues and doing what he wanted for way too long....not anymore while OW is still in the picture.
SA - thank you my friend....I feel good
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
