Thank you, prairiegirl. As my first post is really long and I have two posts there, maybe I'll just link it for ease. If anyone wants to ask questions without referencing the posts, I can either reply a simple answer, or c&p from my initial thread, no problem. smile

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2010849#Post2010849