I didnt ask for custody of the twins because I have NO claim to them legally speaking for starters. Second, neither the WAW NOR the H have custody of the twins EITHER. HIS mother got custody of them shortly after they were born , for reasons that are far to complex to go into in this format. About 6 years ago both my WAW and H signed adoption papers , giving HIS mother and her now deceased husband full legal custody of them. I know sandi has already mentioned my four or five disparate threads, so I cant fault you for not knowing that, but I know for certain I mentioned it before.
Of course I loved them as my own , still do to this day, always called them my daughters, albiet if not biologically, certainly in matters of the heart. And YES my WAW absolutely knew that. In fact, she just got PISSED at me the other day cause I called to talk to one of them, since the last time they were here for a visit was right at the outset of everything going to hell and she dominated her time with them.
So I wanted to make sure how they were feeling , reassure them ,etc , without trying to put them " in the middle " of anything. Keep in mind , the WAW gave me express permission to talk to them and " of course you can still see the twins " just a few weeks ago.
Now this past Monday, I call one of them and talk for a few minutes and a few minutes later the WAW calls me giving me an earful about it
