he's not you. how can you hold him to a standard that you can't meet? that's why loving someone the way they feel love is so important, if it's important to you then it is important to me.
i totally agree with you on this. however .. i can't love him the way his mother loves him. it's not possible. and i wouldn't try to replace his mother. i was that wonderful kind of love that you feel when someone other than family loves you for who you are. what's important to him, is important to me as well. why else would i spend so much time coming up with a creative gift for his mother for mother's day? i remember things that his father says and i'd surprise him with a gift at christmas. they were important to me too. but when it was just me and him, his mind was always on his parents. i felt like i was in the way.
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I see WOA and QT.
i never really thought of myself as a WOA person. i was more of a PT and QT person.
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So what is your plan for your b-day?
will spend it alone. but i will go somewhere.
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What do you get when you cross a insomniac, a dyslexic and a agnostic?