You're learning from this when you're learning about yourself.
Doesn't matter if you're interacting with him or not..this journey became about you when your husband put you on it.
Each person is different each MLC is different..but it's the journey and the end result that matter...not for him, but for YOU.
Don't worry about him...get on with your life AS IF he's not coming back..better days will come; they always do.
Have a good one.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.