The last two hours have been extremely interesting. Make a long story short, took a section of the CPA exam (once you committ need to follow through). Finished in time to meet my therapist, unloaded on him, he said I was right, and believe she has a personality disoder, which falls right into place. He said, its going to be a tough road and very difficult, but I need to be stronger. He said, I should not leave town, I should not be cleaning the house every day, I should not be doing so much - we are a team and we need to do things together. If she yells and screams, take the children next door. I should not be living like this.
As I drive into my office to actually do some time, and get a little bit of work done, my W calls me. She mentions that she had it out with her sister-in-law (her brothers wife) and she told her off. She asked me about my therapy appointment, and I said we talked about certain things. I explained to my wife that I really was not able to discuss what we talked about. Her comment was, you can't leave the office and speak to her in a hallway (I believe she was at work also). My wife said, that after speaking to the sister-in-law that we had to move out of town. I said, again, that I was not prepared to move. She asked why not, and said, I am doing fine at this point, and that I have a good job, and I am happy where we are at. She said I promised to get her out of town, and that again I am breaking her promise. She back peddaled on the “hating” everyone and said that she disliked everyone, because she hates (or dislikes) me. She said that I guess I would rather stay here alone and be unhappy and she would move with the kids. I laughed at that suggestion, because after three hours at the zoo she was about to kill them. This conversation went back and forth for a half hour, with her making significant accusations about me, about the marriage, about where I am getting my advice from, until I said, you called me ant wanted to bring this up. Was that anything else she wanted to discuss with me, and she hung up.
I decided to call my sister-in-law, who basically said that she, the sister-in-laws and my wife's four brothers think that no matter what I think, I am 100% RIGHT. She would like me to take a stronger stand for myself, and I may end up losing the marriage, but I will at least save the kids (and my sanity). She agreed with my life being chaos that as my wife is running around, doing whatever she is doing, when she is not in her bed, complaining about things on Facebook.
Anyway, I am not sure what the next step is. My wife is extremely angry with me (my sister-in-law also said so) and that I need to develop a strategy to fix this the best I can.
