Now, what do you think, was I too dark? Should I ad more warmth and some smiles into our interactions next time?
I think you did just fine...he NEEDS to see the coldness within your looks at him...Mila, he is committing adultery with another woman..since when does this mean that you need to be nice to him?
Your actions need to continue to tell him that this is NOT acceptable, and as long as he continues this crap, YOU will NOT be a part of it...your actions are speaking loud and clear, don't think he doesn't see them...he does.
If he decides to go on with OW, you're NOT losing anything, but a liar, a cheat, and a whole bunch of trouble you didn't need in the first place.
Keep walking the walk, talking the talk....give this time to work or not...you simply cannot go back to the place you were in, with him disrespecting you by having OW.
Three does NOT a marriage make..it's a crowd...and there's no evidence of love and respect there within him as long as he continue to play this selfish game of his.
Have a good one.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
