Stop thinking that you know what your W thinks. It's what she believes right now. It doesn't mean that it won't/can't change later. Last week you were saying the same things, yet once you started loosening up, she responded much more positively. Your actions are having an effect but you have to understand that you can't control the sitch.
If you found out that she was talked to by the supervisor, what then? What would you have done? Probably nothing.
If you go next door and she starts accusing you of calling the OMW, then tell her she can come if she likes, then leave without waiting for an answer. Let her paranoia feed on itself. You don't need to feed it yourself.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.