Cause for alarm?

[OfficerInNeed]

What started this all is W found the phone and seen I called OMW...I brought this on myself. I did not get through to OMW/OM but I did want to find out if the conversation happened. It was a stupid move on my part.

Now W thinks every time I go next door I am using the phone to make calls and that I have been making calls all along. Somehow the phone number of OMW/OW was saved into the phone's directory (I swear I did not do that, don't know how it happened) and now I am being blamed for that too and W does not believe what I have to say.

I should had never made the call and we would not be in this mess.

I said somethings to my W about OM maybe I should not had. I called her out on her feelings for him and said she was being dishonest. It just kills me when she tells me "I have nothing to hide" when she is hiding a lot.

Then my W wanted to make it as if though those poems and song lyrics may have been meant for me. NO, they were NOT.

I am not sure how to proceed from here.

W thinks I am a liar. W thinks I have been lying all along. W saying she can't trust me. W saying she tried to make it work but cannot be happy so she is done trying.