Last Thanksgiving he got *very* mad at me because he texted me "happy t-day" and I did not respond and as per him it hurt his feelings. Oh, so sorry HIS feelings have been hurt! Shortly after that we spoke on the phone and he said "I wish you would feel comfortable contacting me" (this is right after he said that his GF has forbidden him to speak/see me ever again).
IOW - he wants me to keep pursuing him so he can turn me down (note: since he dictated to me we were getting divorced I have never pursued him once!) and have his GF.
Right around this time he also told me he questions why he is in this R with his GF still, they fight and have broken up four times but he is learning from our R that he has to NOT run away. Have mercy.
He told me part of them moving in together was convenience to split a high rental payment. Whatever!
He also told me "it's been two years and you should be over it"... er, who says I am NOT?!