My wife filed on me last month, it sucks but not allot you can do but go with it. I tried for four years, I still do not understand how they just can't forgive, let go the past and work on things. But that's there choice.
It's simple. She needs to justify what she is doing in her own mind. Wrong or right, it is her excuse to forgive herself for destroying a family.
In my case she really did not have any excuses at all because I was always a good husband to her.
So what did she do? She Used the old MLC standby "It's not you it's me". And "I just don't love you anymore".
What a freaking joke. Don't try to apply logic to it. There is none in their mind. Logic goes out the window.
Just understand that there is little to nothing you can do about her. Just take care of yourself and stop trying to figure her out. You will only drive yourself insane. Ask me how I know.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me
