It's a thought. I don't know if they talk about personal stuff at all. Another reason why I thought about writing specifically to her sister is because she recently purchased a house and was making plans to accomodate my W and the kids. They even had a room set aside for my oldest.
These are all just enabling my W's behavior and screwing with the kids' heads. It's bribery plain and simple to the kids. Instead of talking things out, they buy things or enable each other.
I know she probably thinks she's doing a good thing by helping her sister, but she's never been married or even had a long term relationship, so she doesn't understand the meaning of loss.
What they are doing is re-creating how they were raised. With mostly females and lots of people altogether in one household. Of course my W said she hated living like that before, but now it's okay.
It's almost like they created their own sanctuary rather than dealing with conflict.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
