It sounds like H doesn't know yet exactly what he wants. When it comes to S, make sure you are documenting this stuff. Although you don't want to think about D, it is good to have those things so that if it does come to D, you can prove he is not a good parent, neglectful, etc. Something to protect yourself.

Also do you save the texts H sends? I started saving texts in January to make sure that everything he has told me stays saved and documented.

I hope you have a great Friday and a good weekend!


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52
2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg
3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89