I'm fresh out of different things to try. My only recourse at this point seems to be to continue to complete the detachment process and move on with my life and let her live hers.
Hopefully one day she will realize how poorly she has treated me regardless of what her initial rationalization process was. Somehow I get the impression that day will never arrive. Maybe the trauma that is certain to befell our children as a result of her decisions will come home to roost for her.
She casually discarded a relationship/marriage that exceed 22 years and involved young twins with a cold callousness that is still shocking to me. Yet she now is playing nice nice with me as if everything should be cool.
There is plenty more of taking care of me that I need to work on. Thanks for the reminder.
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)
