You are going to be tempted to TELL him all these things your realize in yourself...
Don't.
Make the changes and live them, when he comments Thank him for noticing and then tell him what you realized. But HE has to see it, not have it pointed out to him...pointing it out...is more of the same stuff you are trying to change.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
