I am not trying to be rude. I am at work today and I seriously feel like I’m getting ready to have an anxiety attack. I shouldn’t have come back today it was too much for me.
This is more serious then I thought. He obviously has a problem that for some reason I was blind to before. When he left he made it feel like it was because of me but now that I know he is seeking out other women and I’m 99% positive he visited someone several days ago I am extremely concerned.
At this point I have no problem packing up his stuff. I thought he was working on this issue but now I feel like he is walking all over me and using me an excuse for his behavior. At this point packing it up isn’t my question.
I want to know if I can get his parents involved and let them know what is going on? Can I confront him and tell him I’m not going to enable him anymore and ask him to get help? I feel like I need to tell someone. This is tearing me apart. He is destroying himself.
How could I have not seen it before? I feel so dumb. But the other incidences I guess I just thought they were minor but now it is clear this is an issue.
