You have at least two choices:

Keep doing what you have been doing that isn't working.

OR

LISTEN TO US AND DO WHAT WE HAVE SEEN WORK.

It is your choice.

I strongly suggest that you do the following even though it goes against what you think should work:

1) Have faith in the process.
2) Pack us his stuff, have it ready for him to pick up. You can do this in stages if you want.
3) Start with his clothes and toiletry.
MAKE THE MASTER BEDROOM ALL YOURS.
MAKE THE MASTER BATH ALL YOURS.

4) IF HE SHOWS UP, GO FOR A DRIVE. BE GONE FOR HOURS.

Let us know when his stuff is out of YOUR ROOM.

HUGS


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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