I think it's more like she feels the void of the OM and is looking at something to fill it. She hasn't apologized for her behavior so when someone else comes along she's going to go to him rather than stay with OIN.
Continue with the positives and show her the bright spots of living with you OIN.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.