Women hold onto memories when they were emotionally hurt by someone that they expected to care for, support and love them. Their feelings are hurt and until you do something to acknowledge and remedy the hurt they stay hurt. Your wifes feelings matter. Be aware.
I thought I got it, Coach. My problem is, how do I acknowledge her feelings,(I have, BTW) and remedy those without being perceived as pursuing?
As you say, be a leader. I have finally understood and put this into action. I let her be in her moods, which is most of the time. I try not to let it get to me and not let her see that it does. I'm sure she sees through it sometimes. With suggesting Retrou., in my mind, I was showing her other options. The next one is the weekend of June 4, so it is coming up quickly, or I would have never brought it up at this time.
I know there is nothing I can do if she is only going to MC to "save face". I can't mind read.
I guess wait for the MC session and go from there.
