It's so weird Laura. He honestly doesn't see that as antagonistic!
He is a total brain and he got into this whole theory about how this is the best way to teach math and he started lecturing about math = I hadn't even had my coffee so when I asked a question about what he meant, he looked at me and said,
"Never mind, Hope." and walked away. And he doesn't see how that seems arrogant.

I did walk away. I did great. I just stopped talking and walked away. He could still tell I was offended and said "Calm down, sheesh."

I mean it's so ridiculous. So I checked with myself and told myself he literally doesn't think this is a problem, so I won't be offended and i dropped it.

I just get spun in questioning myself. Am I over sensitive? Or is he as offensive as I experience him? And since he dumped me, he is not too interested in hearing how he comes across.


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship