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Are you all familiar with Spiritual Gifts assesment?

i'm not familiar with this. is it part of gary chapman's ll stuff?

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This personality is very prone to being co-dependent. Extreme people pleasers. Very easy going and laid back. They HATE conflict (like between D4ML and parents--this would kill a Plegmatic type).

he doesn't work at pleasing me.
and yes, he hates conflict. he once said that he experiences conflict at work and when he comes home, he senses conflict as well. the only place there is no conflict is when he is alone in his bed. and therefore, he never wants to get out of bed to face the conflict at work.

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Not terribly ambitious usually--they are too easy going and don't like to "fight their way to the top" because of wanting to please everyone.

i agree.
with his skill, he could have done more with his career.
but he dragged his heels. he wanted to spend more time on activities like volleyball, ultimate frisbee, etc.
it's like wanting to be peter pan. always have fun and never face responsibilities or grow old.

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Around here D4ML, the next "relationship" is hopefully your H

((lauraoh))
thanks.