Coach, your comments raise a question for me. How do you acknowledge and remedy the hurt if you are separated and they won't talk to you? I'd love to write my W a letter of apology expressing this but I know that's considered pursuing behavior. I try to show her the best I can now (due to the separation) through my actions. Any thoughts?
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch
