Sorry Anned...I feel like I am underqualified to give you any advice since your H is an addict and that is complicated territory.

Are you in IC?

He does need help. But my gut says that he needs to hit rock bottom.

I think you should not worry that he is going to get the divorce papers any time soon. If he moves his stuff out, fine. Again, please look on these boards and you will see that it takes most WAS a long time before they file for D.

So during that time, you should see an IC and research sex addiction, etc. Do you have any dealbreakers?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004