Just my 2 cents but I don't see how your W is being an a$$?
I don't mean about going to MC, just her attitude in general. It seem the more I am upbeat and happy, she goes further the other way.
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She was probably very apprehensive about agreeing to MC in the first place...a big step for her.
You're right, she was. She has refused for months to entertain the idea.
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She probably figured you might push the envelope with her and want more right away and you did. Now she's pulling back a little. I can understand that.
Again, you're probably right. I didn't see it that way, of course. I was just trying to give some different options. I just told her to look at the literature and think about it. I can see what you're saying, though.
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I've read on here that so many times when a W starts to show the slightest sign of movement the H jumps all over it and wants more. It's difficult not to, I know. If I were you I would just be happy right now that she is going to MC and take it slowly one step at a time. You're finally beginning to see some progress. You've been patient this long. Continue to be patient with the schedule she is comfortable with.
I am happy she has agreed to go. And I do wonder about her motives. Maybe it does show, I don't know. I try not to let it. So many things in my mind to do correct and not screw up. Yet, I continue to do so.
I'm sure you are right; go and see what happens, no pressure and patience.
