Depressed H wants to walk

[ReelingW/aSmile]

Your marriage is about to end, and you are afraid of telling anybody how you will know your marriage is getting better?

not anybody, just H
yes I am afraid of that

Well, if you don't do anything different and neither does your H, then it's going to end.

I agree with you.

What are you so afraid of? And you don't need a complete laundry list. What are the top two things?

Top 2
1. losing the chance to reconnect with H
2. my children living through the pain of their father leaving

Thanks for stopping by TH. I don't mind your direct style at all. My M, as I knew it, is over. I hope that is a good thing and our M can get better. I have to come to terms with the fact that this is not solely my decision/up to me.