You know it's funny how we all go through this roller coaster. One day we feel great and the next not so great. Today I am feeling great !
Firstly, I can't thank you enough for your perspective on this. I really never think of the situation the way you are. It's especially great to hear a woman's view as well. I just assume my ex could not be happier with this situation.
You know you are so right about the cardboard box thing. My kids love doing that.
This weekend I have my 5 year old son. I have arranged for us to have a tour of a power plant. He will love seeing all the big machinery. I also just bought tickets to see Green Day for him and I. It's going to be his first concert. He is through the roof excited. My 7 year old daughter said she didn't want to go. She is more into Miley Cyrus and Taylor Swift. She and I are going to Carrie Underwood in a few months.
My daughter took to school photos of her meeting Taylor Swift and Kellie Pickler from the weekend. One of the teachers that is fond of me commented that she would have loved to have gone with us. She told my daughter how lucky she was. She did this in front of my ex. My ex said "Chloe, you have the best daddy ever".
Anyway, yes you are right. I will continue on having such a great time with my kidlets. The truth is I was doing not too badly when I had NC with my ex. I got messed up when I got sucked back in. Must stay strong and keep ahead !
Thanks again LO. You have been helping soooo much. Feel great that you are helping someone else !
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09
