DG - I don't know if this is any comfort or not but I'm kind of in the same state of mind.

I don't know how to talk/not talk to him either. I too have a gut feeling that we are not done, yet he continues on his MLC journey with OW.

I have dropped the rope, but I haven't cut it.

I think that the only path we can take right now is the path of taking care of us, to live for us...what else is there? We can't change them, we can't make them come back. If they wake-up later they will let us know.

It the mean time we could act in a way that doesn't burn any bridges that they may need to cross to come back to us.


(((hugs)))

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO