Almost a year ago I found out my wife was cheating on me. She told me she thought I was leaving her though the thought had never crossed my mind. I almost left her, but after talking to family and friends, I decided to stay and work it out. We went to see a therapist together and though it was hard in the beginning, I eventually started seeing that things were getting better.
The Friday before Mother's Day we had an argument and she went to visit her family all day Saturday. On Sunday she came home and told me she wasn't happy and wanted a divorce. She said she has had doubts about us off and on for the past year and the argument sealed it. I asked if we could try other ways to repair our marriage and she said she didn't want to try anymore. She also said she wanted the divorce done as soon as possible because she saw no reason in dragging it out because there was NO way she was going to change her mind.
That was May 9th. She met an attorney on May 17th and filed the papers. She asked me to move out of our house, so now all my things are in storage. As I began the process of getting my stuff out of the house she would just sit in the room I as working on and cry. She would tell me she loved me and missed me. She would also hug and kiss me periodically. She seemed the most upset when I left each night.
Up until two nights ago she would still call me every night to tell me she loved me, missed me and still wanted me to be the last person she talked to at night. Two nights ago I fell asleep early and missed her call. I sent her a text message yesterday but she hasn't responded yet.
We have been together for 5 1/2 years and got married a year and a half ago. I know there are things I could've done differently if I had known divorce was on her mind but she never told me. We were going to try for a baby this fall, I was looking forward to being a Dad. That's a silver lining in itself, I wouldn't want to put a child through all of this. Everything has happened so fast I'm just not sure what to do anymore. I guess I'm just confused.
