I'm still having a rough time dealing with OWs issue. It looks like the young 19 YO is pulling away from H (won't leave her fiance, his nephew), and he is tired of being "lonely". Now, he is pursuing a 40 YO ex-girlfriend- they had lunch together a couple of days ago. It seems like H wants a relationship so bad; why not rekindle the relationship with his WIFE (me)?! Is the fact that he never considers pursuing me again a sign that there is no hope he'll ever reconcile with me? Are there any moves or anything I could be saying right now to "woo" him back to me while he is "lonely"?
M: 34 WAH: 38 (in MLC) Together: 11 years Married since: November 2000 DS: 15 DS: 11 DS: 10 ILYBINILWY: Dec. 2009 Living separately since: April 2010