I have pulled her up about listening to my messages. She blamed my son.
I have informed her that we need to talk about our finances.
I have told her that I do not want her OM anywhere near the boys and that I will inform the relevant protection services if I need to.
This went down well......
A few swear words later and shouting at me started. I said I will not accept this and walked out the room.
She calmed down and accused me of hiding everything from her - she means the advice I have received, the moving of the money, ect.
I calmed her down and said that I did not want to go down the solicitor route, and that I did not want to fight her or use the boys as weapons. But I told her that I will do what I need to protect me and my boys.
It turns out the OM has been beaten up by 2 bikers and his car has been damaged. She thinks that I have paid some bikers to do this. She is just weaving a new story for everything.
At the moment she doesn't trust me.
At the moment she doesn't know what I am doing.
She is surprised in how fast I have acted and in what I have done. She did not think I would do what I have done.
Time to allow emotions to settle down.
Gyn.
Cause all of the stars, Have faded away, Just try not to worry, You'll see them someday. Take what you need, And be on your way and, Stop crying your heart out.
