embracing change

[flowmom]

<scratching head>

I let H know that I used a line of credit due to a short-term cash crunch and he replied in an email:

Thank you for telling me this. In order to keep things clean, is there any way that you could use the 'old' line of credit to cover shortfalls and cash crunches? I think it will make reaching a financial plan/agreement much easier to reach and require far less forensic accounting

I'm left wondering what the heck he thinks is going to happen? Yes, we are "separated", but we have no legal agreements in place and as far as I know any debt that either of us incurs is still "joint". Am I missing something? We just consolidated our debt so I think maybe he thinks that puts us at a "clean slate" where as long as he gives me a monthly amount of money that he's come up with (with no explanation), he feels that any debt that I incur is my problem only? Even though I am being pretty frugal and mostly spending money on expenses that we've agreed on. And I'm not the one spending an extra $1000/mo on rent plus buying new furniture, stereo, printer, etc.

Either he has a L with a strategy, or he hasn't really gotten "real" legal advice, or I am seriously confused.

And yes, after no mention of D for a very long time...I consider this a pretty clear indication of his intention to D (not that I'm surprised).