"can you smell?"

Yes.. yes I can.

Are you really icky?

"what do you mean by emotional lead?"

Women tend to lead "emotion" in a R. Men typically follow the "emotion". Even Michelle agrees with that.

Your situation.. not so much.

I suspect he was the "emotional" leader. It is in your words. It is in your reactions. I might even say it is in your "background".

You have impressed upon us that you are happy with you. You are proud of yourself. I don't disagree.

You have a lot to be proud of.

When you got the job.. what made you more happy?

That you got the job..

Or that you got the job at any "cost"?

Remember.. questions.. control the conversation.

They direct where you go next.

How does your answer to my question above.. relate to you and your H?

I don't know.. is not a good answer. And I will call you out on that. Think about it before you peck it out on the keyboard.

Now...

Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.