How should I handle MLC direct lying?

[Truegritter]

I agree with Mr. Bond and

I'm allowed to accept some invitations while dark right? Just not all? Again under the current circumstances with my feelings I don't want to accept any.

Let your feelings guide you here. Like I said this is to protect you while you heal and move on your own journey.

So....

Given that is the goal how would you answer that question?

amg your guide to this stuff lies within YOU. These aren't games or strategies...

I can tell you what you should do based on my experience and others here will do the same and tell you the same things I will tell you.

BUT <<<<< this is a dirty word that I am hunting down now.

BUT you must be the exception to this advice?

Not likely.

AND you will do what you want, except all the invitations you want

until...

you've had enough pain.

Your pain will guide you.