How should I handle MLC direct lying?

[amg2]

I'm sorry to be confusing. I asked H to leave nearly 4 mos ago after discovering he was having two email/cell/texting As. He says not physical. 4th time total in As. Ridiculous.

I do not contact him, question him, or invite him to anything anymore. He contacts me 2-3 times per week and I eventually reply. He texted me the text that upset me, reporting that one of the EA text partners had yet again contacted him asking why he would no longer talk to her. This EA "ran it's course" before d day. Supposedly he isn't/hasn't been having inappropriate contact since dday but I seriously doubt this.

As far as the vacation it is with HIS parents, and I feel very strange not inviting him...

His behaviors haven't been affecting me until this text. He sent it out of his "duty" to let me know she contacted him. But in the same text he went on to ask what I was doing this weekend, like it's no big deal that she contacted him. He's in denial/oblivous to my feelings about this it seems. I'm so upset that I can't just smile and be calm and confident and accept any social invitations from him. This one got me.

I'm allowed to accept some invitations while dark right? Just not all? Again under the current circumstances with my feelings I don't want to accept any.

Thanks