Sunday, huh? Boy will I be anticipating your post!


Quote:
"Do you hate me?"-- and if he asks that I'd say of course not. I told you already I'll always love you.


This made me tear up!! It is so selfless because he has left you pregnant and you still love the H underneath this bizarre behavior!

BTW my therapist said today that the reason 50% marriages are ending in divorce is simply that people don't HAVE to stay married anymore (no need for the economic benefits and it is socially acceptable to be divorced)so they would rather divorce than deal with the difficult challenges that got them to that point. Meaning they say the fight for recovery is too hard- it would be easier to divorce.
(but there are some deal breakers for which we have every right to kick 'em to the curb!)

And I read some marriage therapist's blog who said that if people stay together for the kids, there is nothing wrong with that because many times it can be the motivating reason to work things out.


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004