WAW Using God II

[pigskin]

Thanks coach. What I'm hoping for is for her to initiate the suggestion to attend MC, rather than me. Then I will agree if she agrees to drop the OM. I will have more confidence that it won't be a waste of time if SHE suggests it.

I don't mean this in a harsh way, but a curious one: what are you getting out of living in the fantasy-land that you've described above?

Don't get me wrong, I know the odds are low. I'm just saying I don't want to be the one initiating any reconciliation. Tried that. Doesn't work. Has to come from her.

They are a bunch of liars, or at least the way you explain your wife talks about it.

Think about it..the guy who BAPTIZED her, the one who knows she's cheating, condones it. He BAPTIZED a liar.

My gosh knitted, we've been over this before. Enough about my W's church. I'm not naive. I know a "mooney" church when I see one. Even my parish pastor, a CATHOLIC priest, has told me that the strictness with which my W's pastors treat immoral behavior makes what they do at my parish look namby-pamby. He knows the head pastor at my W's church and they "compare notes" a lot.

The man who baptized my W had no idea she was in an adulterous relationship at the time he baptized her. He didn't know the whole story until I met with him the day after the baptism.

If your wife wanted to come back to you, she would. Don't you think if she wanted to be rid of the OM, he'd be gone already. I mean, she already dropped you, there's no difference bw you and him...that is, except the one that she prefers to be with.

Think about the parable Jesus uses, about the sower and the seed. Your love is the seed, but you are throwing it on rocky and dead ground. Throw your seed where it will grow.

That place - from everything you've said - is not there. It is barren.

Very true. My wife is a very confused and messed up woman who is not well. I have gotten to the point where I am no longer giving her the benefit of the doubt.