Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

Gucci, yes, I can take charge with the agent. The reason I haven't is because I have been the one to always take care of these things. W picked this agent because she was supposed to be so good. I have sat back and quietly observed and not said anything until this week. I have been the contact for the agent this entire time. My thought was that I would transfer that responsibility to my W now and let her deal with it. She is the one who wants to sell the house, do nothing to help and she chose this agent. I feel like I'm bailing her out again by taking care of this just like I always did. Should I continue to just stand by and watch W do nothing here? She has made no attempt to talk about M. Wouldn't this be considered her cake eating?

If you still think I'm wrong with this thinking please let me know. Yes, I can take charge again but what does it gain? Trust me, I'm not trying to be a jerk in my thinking. I read so much how we should stop the cake eating and hold them accountable for things. Then I read that we should take care of things. It gets confusing at times. Make no mistake though, I always took charge of these things in our M.

I always appreciate your advice. Thanks again.