My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[ken5140]

UPDATE: I have the paperwork for the Temporary Separation Order, but I haven't started to fill it out yet. I'm planning to start that tonight. I didn't think my wife was still talking to the OM, but I discovered today that she has been and my little one told me that she called him from work and told him "I wish you could come here" and "you're making me cry". I saw on her phone log that she had two conversations with him today.

When she got home, she talked to me about planning our 7 yo daughter's birthday party and wants me to go to the local rec center and pay to reserve the place for a time next week. I wanted to be there to celebrate it, but now I don't know what I should do about that. My wife plans to be there.

Also should I call the OM and confront him? He did tell me a week and a half ago that he would not be calling W and he asked her not to call him. I guess that didn't last.