Is being a WAW a good decision? HELP

[angierenee]

I'm sorry, at first i was trying to save my marriage.

He said he wanted a separation about one month ago. We still live together but sleep in different rooms. He started seeing a therapist and came home and declared that our marriage has serious problems.

1. i dont have any friends since we have moved into his old hometown. And this is a problem because I have no life. Although I am going to school finishing my bachelors degree and working 40 hours a week and taking care of our daughter.

2. He is a pathological liar to me because he wants what he wants and he is going to do whatever he wants. If I can't trust him then we can't be together. And yes he said this all in one sentence.

3. He doesnt think he can be with me because I am a mean cold person. And he doesnt think I will ever change. He told me that his therapist suggested he get a paternity test and that he should have never married me.

all of which i was completely shocked. She also told him that there is no problem that he smokes pot every single day. I don't know if he is lying to me about that too.

I want to change and make things better but after a month of hell and all of these horrible things he is saying to me because his therapist "told him". I don't know. I have never cheated on him so I dont know why she would suggest a paternity test. I dont know what he is telling her but... it sucks I feel like such a piece of ****