W emailed me back today. She completely ignored my asking her to vacuum the house and she didn't make any comments about me moving back into the house. She also said nothing about me continuing to communicate with the bank for the house. No thank you for me mowing the grass...nothing. Boy is she something. Who is this woman? Whatever at this point. Games, games and more games.
She said she spoke to the agent and the agent claims she texted me about showings (um, no, that never happened), said the agent gave me feedback for showings (again, no) and the agent would be calling me today to discuss (hasn't happened yet). I told W in my last email that I do not want to be the contact for agent. W mentioned nothing about this...more disrespect. W mentioned to agent that despite some of the few things of negative feedback, she thought someone could make an offer if interested. Duh, no one has been interested yet. How many times is she going to say the same thing?
How do I respond to this email. Funny she waited until today (anniversary) to email me. She,of course, didn't mention it. I don't care. When I respond to her email tomorrow how should I handle it? The old me would have jumped all over this and told W that agent was full of BS, why did the agent wait so long to do x, y and z, etc. Should I bring up the vacuuming again? Me dealing with the bank? Me moving back home? Her being the contact with agent? These are all things she chose not to discuss. I think I don't mention me moving back into the house and me working with the bank. I see those two things are FYI type information I told her. I do think I should mention her helping with the vacuuming and her being the contact for agent. Is her not mentioning these things an example of her testing my boundaries?
When I first read her emails lately I have a tendency to think they are awful emails. By that I mean she is cold and distant in the emails. After reading them a few times I think that she is just being factual. I don't think she is trying to be mean. It does bother me when she ignores my comments and only replies to what she wants to reply to. What should I make of it that she didn't mention my moving back or the helping with the vacuuming?
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch