yes, Im taking my son to my therapist tomorrow. He is going to talk to her by himself not with me like last time. I think he will be a lot happier when he gets his first job and sees that I am ok with the situation. I have been feeling a lot more positive now that I am GAL. I am going to play tennis with a new friend next week, and I am going to join a new church. how are you doing with GAL it is the most important thing you can do for yourself. You can't control what anyone else is doing. I also think it is not good to spend to much time on these boards, you have to go out and enjoy life, take action.