I went out to supper. He offered me supper when I got home but I declined as I told him I had had some.
He looks guilty and confused. Spent little time with me, which is unusual. Eye contact is more difficult for him, whereas previously eye contact was good. He is more miserable and looks old and drawn again. Depression beckons!
I validated what he said but gave no views on the business etc. He tried to talk about it but I just validated what he said so he gave up. Again he wants me to know he is working hard and long hours. h almost wants to reassure me he's not with OW.
He is now looking at Cruise holidays. It appears that all the holidays he is booking with OW are places we went and had lovely holidays both as a couple and with the kids. So he is still looking outward for happiness not inward.
Having said that tonight he has put new tyres on D's car and went to the shop and bought milk. I offered the money and he declined. So small positives. He also parked his car on the drive again and not the road. He asked me if I was off when the children were off school. I said no. He wants to take the children out for the day.
So he continues to fly by on his rollercoaster. And we all wave!
